Can’t Get It Up? What to Do During an Escort Booking

It’s Not the End of the World!

It happens to the best of us. You’re finally in a room with a stunning escort, ready for an unforgettable experience, but your body has other plans. Before you panic, take a deep breath. Performance issues are more common than you think, and escorts have encountered them many times before..

Whether you’ve booked an escort in Ilford, Ealing or Barking, there are plenty of ways to have an incredible time beyond what happens (or doesn’t happen) in the bedroom.

If nerves are getting the best of you, check out our guide on what to expect when meeting an escort for the first time to ease your worries.

 

Common Causes of Performance Issues

Many factors can contribute to difficulties getting an erection, and most of them have nothing to do with attraction.

• Nerves & Pressure – Sometimes, the sheer excitement of meeting an escort can cause anxiety, making it difficult to relax. Escorts understand this and are experienced in putting clients at ease.
• Alcohol & Partying – A wild night with a party girl escort might sound like fun, but too much alcohol can significantly affect performance. “Some men book after a long night out and are surprised when things don’t work the way they expected,” says Alexis, a popular escort in Lewisham. “It’s nothing to stress over.”
• Fatigue & Stress – If you’ve had a long day at work or are mentally drained, your body might not cooperate.
• Medication & Health Issues – Certain prescriptions, as well as conditions like anxiety, can impact sexual performance.
• Age & Hormones – Escorts, especially MILF escorts, often see this more in clients over 40, but they also know exactly how to handle it. “It’s common, but you wouldn’t believe how many clients apologise when there’s no need to,” says Bell, one of our escorts available in Wembley.“Sometimes, a change in focus is all that’s needed.”

 

What Should You Do in the Moment?

So, you’re there with your escort, and things aren’t happening as planned. Here’s what to do next:

• Don’t Panic – A temporary performance issue is just that – temporary. Many men experience this at some point, and stressing over it only makes things worse.
• Talk to Your Escort – Many escorts encourage open communication, and just chatting can help put you at ease. “One client was so nervous at the start, but once we started chatting and having a laugh, things naturally sorted themselves out,” says Cherry, one of our curvy escorts.
• Try Something Else – Enjoy some foreplay, an erotic massage, or let her take the lead – sometimes, the pressure of penetration makes things worse.
• Focus on Her – Some escorts might suggest shifting the attention onto her pleasure, which can naturally reignite the spark for you.

 

How to Prevent It from Happening Again

If performance anxiety has been an issue for you, consider these tips for future bookings:

• Choose the Right Escort – If you’re after a relaxed and sensual experience, a GFE escort is ideal. If you thrive on excitement, a tall escort or Russian escort with a commanding presence might be a confidence booster. “Some men need someone to take control,” says Solana, an escort in Hackney. “It can make a huge difference.”
• Plan Your Booking Timing – If you’re too exhausted at night, consider booking in the afternoon when you’re more energised.
• Manage Alcohol Intake – If you’ve been out at one of the best bars and clubs in London, keep your drinking in check before your booking.
• Consider an Extended Booking – Choosing a travel or overnight escort allows you to take things at a slower pace. If you want to extend your time booked with an escort, check out our blog on how to extend your escort booking.

 

Alternative Ways to Enjoy Your Booking

Even if penetration isn’t on the table, there are plenty of ways to have a memorable time:

• Massage & Relaxation – A sensual touch from a massage escort can be incredibly arousing and help take the pressure off.
• Deep Conversations – A GFE escort can provide emotional intimacy, making the experience just as fulfilling. “Some clients just want to feel close to someone. A great conversation over wine can be just as memorable,” says Bell.
• Roleplay & Kink – If you’re up for something different, a role play escort can introduce fun and fantasy into the mix.
• Dinner Dates & Social Outings – Why not turn your escort booking into a sophisticated evening? Consider taking a dinner date escort to one of the best dinner date spots in London.

 

Browse Escorts Who’ll Make You Feel at Ease

Our escorts want you to have a good time. Performance issues are nothing to be ashamed of, and the best way to handle them is to relax and embrace the moment. The key takeaway? Your escort is there to help you enjoy yourself, no matter what. Looking for a fun, relaxed, and pressure-free experience? Explore our selection of cheap outcall escorts in London and find the perfect match for you.